So things have been peaceful and Mike's been on his best behavior...of course we knew that wouldn't last long. the other day he told Ty he should knock his teeth out because he didn't answer his phone...CAUSE HE WAS SLEEPING!!!
Now today he tells me he's going to kick the shit out of me, when I get to his house to pick up the kids, I'm done. One punch and I'll be sleeping. Here's how that came about:
For thirteen years Mike and I worked as a team to raise our kids. I bent over backwards to keep the peace so we could raise our kids separately but together. I know I told the whole story in my first post. Anyhoo....it didn't take any more than a lowlife herpes infested crackwhore to convince him that I didn't really work as a team with him, that I undermined his authority (yeah, alright Cartmen!) and thus the perfectly working relationship we had as parents was destroyed. If he had any sense in his little head, he would see that she's done nothing but cause drama with and for her ex-husband, and that it's more than obvious that she just couldn't understand, or was maybe jealous of, our relationship. I would say jealous since while we were still friends (yes, that's right...she used to be my best friend) she asked me, right in my living room, if I thought he still had feelings for me. Really?? You've known me for most of our lives and know exactly how Mike and I worked together AS PARENTS ONLY and now I have to reassure you???? Anyway, he's been a nightmare since then.
Today while I wasn't home he let himself into my house. Then let himself into the basement where Tori was hanging out with a couple of her friends. Apparently she had a small bag of weed on the table and he freaked out and took Tori and Ty home. Now let me just say....I do not smoke week (not against it) but I don't smoke it. HE smokes weed on a regular basis. So Mr Hypocrite...where do you think she got it from? He's even said that if he could he'd teach the kids how to roll a joint so they'd have one ready for him when he got home from work...yet he freaks out on me because she was smoking pot. He has this superiority complex, as if he knows everything..."Michael...he who is like the Lord" yet he says the dumbest things!!
Anyhoo....he says he wants me to come over and talk, I calmly told him that there wasn't much we needed to talk about. That I would deal with Tori on my end. Where he proceeds to start yelling at me, saying that I probably let her smoke in my house, that I wasn't going to do anything about it...I'm a terrible mom and this is why she smokes pot....on and on and on. The it turns into a screaming match where I tell him that he has no right coming into my house when I'm not home and he will not do it again. He informs me that he knows the law (LOL) and that he can and will enter any place that his children are at! As he continues to call me names and tell me this is all my fault. Naturally I call him a hypocrite cause seriously ,..that should be his middle name. Then he tells me that when I get there I'm done, he's gonna smash my face in, he's gonna knock me out, etc. I suppose because He who is like the Lord is allowed to call everyone names but God forbid someone call him one.
Needless to say, I went straight to the police station to get an escort. The police went in and spoke to Mike and he admitted that he just walked right in my house when I wasn't home. Therefore, first thing Monday morning he'll have trespassing charges pressed against him that will stick since he admitted it. Also, because of the threats, he'll have harrassment charges pressed against him. I was also told that I should go to the courthouse and file for a restraining order because this is considered domestic violence....and oh my gosh....since the last assault charge was dropped, pending anger management and as long as nothing else happened in the next six months, those charges will be brought back up again. Shame he didn't wait til October.
I've bit my lip for years, I've agreed when I didn't really, I've allowed myself to be told how it was going to be for 13 years....just to keep the peace. That's over now. My middle name is Pauline....not Pushover, and I will be no longer.
